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[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by cc5k

And if you weren't a Christian how would you feel towards her and deal with the situation?

There was nothing in that excerpt that said anything about being a Christian. That statement is universal.

[cc5k]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

There was nothing in that excerpt that said anything about being a Christian. That statement is universal.

Perhaps so, in a perfect world.

But in this world, marriage is created anytime two people exchange vows... and unfortunately, many people either don't uphold them or were foolish to take them in the first place.

I may be crossing the line by telling you something about your marriage, but you know I always try to keep it real... IMO, if your wife showed signs of this behavior before marriage, then you were foolish for marrying her. If not, then she turned for the worse and she's to blame. Either way, what she did is grounds for divorce, and I see no reason to continue trying to love someone who doesn't love you.

[angeladc]

because to hate you're hurting yourself both physically and mentally with depression and anxiety thinking about this person, while they're going to bed in peace at night.it's just not worth it.time is too precious and if they did what they did it was because it was meant to be and that person was just not for you paving the way for your true soul mate.it took me a long time to start letting go of my personal hate towards my husband.while i'm sitting at home hating him and thinking only the possible worse that could happen to him, he's out having a good time not even thinking about me.why give somebody that type of reign over you?forgive, foget, and move on.the hardest 3 things to me that a person could ever do after a person has wronged them.