Black Women want thugs

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

I knew from the beginning that you said you didn't like thugs. That's why you shouldn't be fighting me. You are simply creating a cover for these women to fulfill their lust while destroying our communities.

I am a practical person. If the sistas would say "Look thug nigga, you go get your education, stop dressing like some black-faced clown, and be about something then your punk ass can holla at a sista. I'm too precious and have too much respect for myself to give it up to you."

That would change the world overnight. Niggas all of a sudden would be interested in Algebra and Chemistry.

No one has held these t-shirt wearing thug niggas in more contempt than I have but they ain't changin' as long as that pussy is flowin'.

@ the picture.

Um i think that if there were NO thugs black women wouldn't even have that option to choose from. Would you date a ghetto fabulous woman??? Someone who isn't that educated or well off??? Well most black men who achieved some kind of status, would not look at those type of women. So all they have to choose from is the thugs who are the only men who want them. I Feel sorry for those women too.

anyways. WHY are you telling me what a real black man is. I know.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by huggylowdown

cut the shit jamal aka sugarbabe! what you wanted was 2 start up this bullshit conversation again. go see a shrink for that talking to yo self shit. r u shitting in yo pants yet? u should be cause i got more 2 come. lol

You really need to slow down with the assumption. I don't know who Jamal is, Nor am I a guy.

I am new here, and actually i found this topic interesting. I have the right to discuss what i want. Now i understand why this forum does not get a lot of activity because you scare off the newbies with rude remarks like that.

I think the only one who needs a shrink and some help would be you, for even assuming something that foolish.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

- Oh gurl, you wanna share this thug nigga?

- For real gurl. My panities are already wet. I can't wait for this nigga to do me.

- Word. This nigga can hit it raw.

- Oh hell yeah. He can do us together.

- And when we get pregnant and runs off, we can cry on each other's shoulders and say "Niggas ain't shit."

- Yeah gurl, niggas ain't shit but this dick is bangin'. Unzip this nigga's pants and let's get to work bitch.




- Yeah bitch, that's what's up.

NOT every black woman wants a thug. SO focus on the ones who don't. I tried to explain why i don't believe your so called sincerity but it went right through your head. You don't like women who like thugs, and you push away the women don't. So you are doing this to yourself.

[huggylowdown]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

You really need to slow down with the assumption. I don't know who Jamal is, Nor am I a guy.

U a gotdamn lie phoenix/jamal aka sugarbabe.!

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

I think the only one who needs a shrink and some help would be you, for even assuming something that foolish.

u found this topic interesting b/c you started it phoenix aka sugarbabe. LMFAO

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

You really need to slow down with the assumption. I don't know who Jamal is, Nor am I a guy.

I am new here, and actually i found this topic interesting. I have the right to discuss what i want. Now i understand why this forum does not get a lot of activity because you scare off the newbies with rude remarks like that.

I think the only one who needs a shrink and some help would be you, for even assuming something that foolish.

Hey, I got your back Sista Sweetie.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

Hey, I got your back Sista Sweetie.

I don't know who this guy is, and why he thinks im you and every other member on this board.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

@ the picture.

Um i think that if there were NO thugs black women wouldn't even have that option to choose from. Would you date a ghetto fabulous woman??? Someone who isn't that educated or well off??? Well most black men who achieved some kind of status, would not look at those type of women. So all they have to choose from is the thugs who are the only men who want them. I Feel sorry for those women too.

anyways. WHY are you telling me what a real black man is. I know.

Yes, I would consider such a woman IF she had values.

We will close this conversation out. We are not connecting on this issue. Even though you don't like these kinds of men, your response is part of the problem. Clearly, it is not just this issue, there is a whole range of issues that negatively affect Black relationships (The I don't need a man syndrome and other such nonsense) and these problems will NEVER be solved unless women's attitudes are changed.

Case closed (hopefully unless you want to keep picking at a sore).

[cc5k]

Originally Posted by huggylowdown

cut the shit jamal aka sugarbabe! what you wanted was 2 start up this bullshit conversation again. go see a shrink for that talking to yo self shit. r u shitting in yo pants yet? u should be cause i got more 2 come. lol

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

Yes, I would consider such a woman IF she had values.

We will close this conversation out. We are not connecting on this issue. Even though you don't like these kinds of men, your response is part of the problem. Clearly, it is not just this issue, there is a whole range of issues that negatively affect Black relationships (The I don't need a man syndrome and other such nonsense) and these problems will NEVER be solved unless women's attitudes are changed.

Case closed (hopefully unless you want to keep picking at a sore).

im not apart of the problem. Im saying the problem occurs when men like you put the blame only on the women, and ignore the men.

Its both black women and black men who need help. I never said anyone was an angel.

We are not connecting on this topic because you just want to blame the women and won't hold the men accountable. That is a big problem.

and NO i don't believe you would date a nice, uneducated black women who did not know how to speak proper English and was not "cultured". I know that some of those nice "ghetto fabulous" uneducated women, only can choose from the thugs because the stuck up professional black men. Feel like they have nothing in common with those women, and those women aren't on their level.

It goes both ways. But you are just one sided. Unlike me who sees both sides and try to understand, with out just blaming one group.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

im not apart of the problem. Im saying the problem occurs when men like you put the blame only on the women, and ignore the men.

Its both black women and black men who need help. I never said anyone was an angel.

We are not connecting on this topic because you just want to blame the women and won't hold the men accountable. That is a big problem.

and NO i don't believe you would date a nice, uneducated black women who did not know how to speak proper English and was not "cultured". I know that some of those nice "ghetto fabulous" uneducated women, only can choose from the thugs because the stuck up professional black men. Feel like they have nothing in common with those women, and those women aren't on their level.

It goes both ways. But you are just one sided. Unlike me who sees both sides and try to understand, with out just blaming one group.

I am finished with the general discussion other than to say I am convinced my approach is correct. If you want to mischaracterize my position as being one-sided, then so be it.

However, you have no right to say who I would date. If a woman had a good heart, I would be open to having a relationship with her. Period. I have a grad degree and have certainly interacted with women with only a high school degree, my first wife for instance. True, I am not interested in some big fat sloppy loud-mouth ghetto hood rat with a stank attitude but I could certainly deal with a woman who maybe dropped out of school and had a good heart and who was interested in building a life together with a good man.

Frankly, I don't give a flying rat's ass about a woman's education if other key qualities are there. You can take that sugar to the refinery and process it.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

I am finished with the general discussion other than to say I am convinced my approach is correct. If you want to mischaracterize my position as being one-sided, then so be it.

However, you have no right to say who I would date. If a woman had a good heart, I would be open to having a relationship with her. Period. I have a grad degree and have certainly interacted with women with only a high school degree, my first wife for instance. True, I am not interested in some big fat sloppy loud-mouth ghetto hood rat with a stank attitude but I could certainly deal with a woman who maybe dropped out of school and had a good heart and who was interested in building a life together with a good man.

Frankly, I don't give a flying rat's ass about a woman's education if other key qualities are there. You can take that sugar to the refinery and process it.

um okay, then you should be able to easily find a women.

Anyways i have not "mischaracterized" your position. You have only blamed things on the women, saying its because all black women want thugs, That in itself is a lie, and bias.

stop with the generalizations, stop with this blame black women, and stop trying to push it down throats.

If you see a woman that you are attracted to, whom carries herself in a nice and classy manner, then approach her instead of assuming she wants a thug.

Its nothing worst then a man who doubts himself. The "thugs" have a lot of confidence. Even the ones who are far from cute. They wont even know how to barely speak correct English but will be up in a woman's face and be persistent with compliments, very flirtatious and jokes. They have some good game that can get almost any woman.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

um okay, then you should be able to easily find a women.

Anyways i have not "mischaracterized" your position. You have only blamed things on the women, saying its because all black women want thugs, That in itself is a lie, and bias.

stop with the generalizations, stop with this blame black women, and stop trying to push it down throats.

If you see a woman that you are attracted to, whom carries herself in a nice and classy manner, then approach her instead of assuming she wants a thug.

Its nothing worst then a man who doubts himself. The "thugs" have a lot of confidence. Even the ones who are far from cute. They wont even know how to barely speak correct English but will be up in a woman's face and be persistent with compliments, very flirtatious and jokes. They have some good game that can get almost any woman.

As I said the problem goes much deeper than simply "thugs". Basically, it's the whole collapse of family values. It you don't see it, you are blind. Seriously, I'm pretty much tired of talking to you but I will endeavor on if you insist. Again, you demonstrate a serious problem in our community. Even when sistas sort of have themselves together they continue to bend over backwards including espousing the bullshit of thugs being confident. Confident at what? Being idiots? Going to jail? Fathering untold kids with multiple baby mommas? Get out of her with that cr