Black Women want thugs

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

aren't you complaining.

AGAIN GENERALIZING. that is probably why you have a hard time with women and society. You rep what you sew, When you stereotype, prejudge, label people, it will be done to you.

so how do you approach black women??? Please don't lie.

and why can't you approach the woman.

I approach women in a respectful way. I have approached and will continue to approach while I look for that one angel that's out there somewhere.

Oh by the way, are you single? (You have just been approached.)

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

Ok, while 70% of our Black children continue to be born out of wedlock.

how are you going to fix the problem when you put all the blame on the women. That is the reason why we have so many irresponsible men. They blame everyone for their faults and let people dictate what they will do and who they are.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

I approach women in a respectful way. I have approached and will continue to approach while I look for that one angel that's out there somewhere.

Oh by the way, are you single? (You have just been approached.)

you are old enough to be my father.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

you are old enough to be my father.

And the problem with that is?

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

how are you going to fix the problem when you put all the blame on the women. That is the reason why we have so many irresponsible men. They blame everyone for their faults and let people dictate what they will do and who they are.

Fine. Once sistas elevate their standards, the men will respond. Again, there are plenty of nice brothers out here but what they get back from women is that they are "soft", "weak", "boring", even "gay", etc.

As one decent brother put it on a podcast, "There is no reward for being a good guy."

[sista]

firechicken, you owe sugarbabe $$$ for diggin up this piece of hot gahbage thread...

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sista

firechicken, you owe sugarbabe $$$ for diggin up this piece of hot gahbage thread...

It's regrettable that she brought it up. But it demonstrates a key point that Black women will defend other Black women to the death even though their sistas are demonstrating destructive behaviors.

That's one thing that needs to change if we are going to have a better community. Sugar and I should be partners in changing the world.

As for you, it's a lost cause.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by sista

firechicken, you owe sugarbabe $$$ for diggin up this piece of hot gahbage thread...

i didn't realize this thread is that old. it was on the first page, once i choose the option to see the threads from the beginning. Also, there aren't that many threads to choose from. And i thought this one was interesting.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

It's regrettable that she brought it up. But it demonstrates a key point that Black women will defend other Black women to the death even though their sistas are demonstrating destructive behaviors.

That's one thing that needs to change if we are going to have a better community. Sugar and I should be partners in changing the world.

As for you, it's a lost cause.

the only thing im defending is my argument, that what you say is a lie and you demonstrate hypocrisy, and irresponsibility.

1. Your assumption is a lie, b/c I like good guys. I Do Not like thugs
2. You are being hypocritical, biased when you just point out the flaws in black women, but overlook the big problems black men face.
3. You promote irresponsibility, when you say that it takes a woman to make a man respectful and have standards. That is NOT true, every man and woman will be held accountable for their actions. REGARDLESS to what others say or do. There will always be someone who will easily have sex, but do you have to take it. NO.

you say that its the woman's fault if she picks a deadbeat dad, but then don't recognize that those irresponsible men need to be address. We can't just live in society with a whole bunch of careless men.

Now my argument, is stop putting the blame on the women. I did NOT say that black women are innocent or little angels. (I do think some of them have those issues) But i will not ignore the many faults in black men. If you address both issues then I will believe you are sincere. If you just address ONLY the women, i know its because you have some kind of issues/resentment towards black women.
(even if every black women was "perfect", there would still be problems if black men don't have their stuff together)

Now I do feel sorry for the So called "good black men" who say they can't get black women. (if they really are good black men ) But maybe they need to come up to those women instead of assuming those girls want thugs. Stop being scared. NO woman wants a guy who doesn't have courage. The thugs probably get the women because they seem to be the ones who come up to women. I have seen some guys ask EVERY other girl for their number until they get at least one.

[sugarbabe]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

And the problem with that is?

Daddy

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

Daddy

Now we talkin' Sugar.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sugarbabe

the only thing im defending is my argument, that what you say is a lie and you demonstrate hypocrisy, and irresponsibility.

1. Your assumption is a lie, b/c I like good guys. I Do Not like thugs
2. You are being hypocritical, biased when you just point out the flaws in black women, but overlook the big problems black men face.
3. You promote irresponsibility, when you say that it takes a woman to make a man respectful and have standards. That is NOT true, every man and woman will be held accountable for their actions. REGARDLESS to what others say or do. There will always be someone who will easily have sex, but do you have to take it. NO.

you say that its the woman's fault if she picks a deadbeat dad, but then don't recognize that those irresponsible men need to be address. We can't just live in society with a whole bunch of careless men.

Now my argument, is stop putting the blame on the women. I did NOT say that black women are innocent or little angels. (I do think some of them have those issues) But i will not ignore the many faults in black men. If you address both issues then I will believe you are sincere. If you just address ONLY the women, i know its because you have some kind of issues/resentment towards black women.
(even if every black women was "perfect", there would still be problems if black men don't have their stuff together)

Now I do feel sorry for the So called "good black men" who say they can't get black women. (if they really are good black men ) But maybe they need to come up to those women instead of assuming those girls want thugs. Stop being scared. NO woman wants a guy who doesn't have courage. The thugs probably get the women because they seem to be the ones who come up to women. I have seen some guys ask EVERY other girl for their number until they get at least one.

I knew from the beginning that you said you didn't like thugs. That's why you shouldn't be fighting me. You are simply creating a cover for these women to fulfill their lust while destroying our communities.

I am a practical person. If the sistas would say "Look thug nigga, you go get your education, stop dressing like some black-faced clown, and be about something then your punk ass can holla at a sista. I'm too precious and have too much respect for myself to give it up to you."

That would change the world overnight. Niggas all of a sudden would be interested in Algebra and Chemistry.

No one has held these t-shirt wearing thug niggas in more contempt than I have but they ain't changin' as long as that pussy is flowin'.