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Old 07-11-2008, 01:50 PM   #31
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i figure if it's so private then why come into a forum that states "let's talk about sex".that's just my opinion.

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Old 07-11-2008, 03:33 PM   #32
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if it's so private then why come into a forum that states "let's talk about sex".that's just my opinion.
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Old 07-11-2008, 05:07 PM   #33
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i figure if it's so private then why come into a forum that states "let's talk about sex".that's just my opinion.
same reason you took yo nosy ass to that fine sistas thread that said fellas
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Old 07-12-2008, 04:20 PM   #34
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well ok jamal.if that's how you feel that's how you feel. i just didn't want to give a type of news forecast about sex.it was just a general topic open for general conversation.we all adults in a sex thread anyway so might as well.i figure if it's so private then why come into a forum that states "let's talk about sex".that's just my opinion.
In case you haven't figured it out angeladc, whenever you start a thread or post a comment it automatically appears on the home page under "recent threads", regardless of what forum you post it under. FYI, I normally don't post comments in the "Let's talk about sex" forum but if I decide to, that's my prerogative to give my opinion or not. And yes we may be all adults (chronologically) but mentally some of us are still acting like juveniles, IMO. Most adults I know are not concerned about what sexual positions others engage in, or what their favorite kissing style is, after a certain age, you figure out that some things are personal. "When I was a child I spoke as a child, but when I became a man I put away childish things". BTW, angeadc (Dr. Ruth) the word "I" is always capitalized. LOL
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Old 07-12-2008, 04:47 PM   #35
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In case you haven't figured it out angeladc, whenever you start a thread or post a comment it automatically appears on the home page under "recent threads", regardless of what forum you post it under. FYI, I normally don't post comments in the "Let's talk about sex" forum but if I decide to, that's my prerogative to give my opinion or not. And yes we may be all adults (chronologically) but mentally some of us are still acting like juveniles, IMO. Most adults I know are not concerned about what sexual positions others engage in, or what their favorite kissing style is, after a certain age, you figure out that some things are personal. "When I was a child I spoke as a child, but when I became a man I put away childish things". BTW, angeadc (Dr. Ruth) the word "I" is always capitalized. LOL
Everyone's entitled to their own preferences, right? Some are more open than others about talking about sex... so folks can do whatever floats their own boat.
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Old 07-12-2008, 05:10 PM   #36
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Everyone's entitled to their own preferences, right? Some are more open than others about talking about sex... so folks can do whatever floats their own boat.
True that! I never said that "people are not entitled to their own preferences" cc5k, where did that come from? (reading comprehension is fundamental to understanding) some people are not only open to talk about sex, but are also open to share sexual partners (called swingers) however, if don't agree with it, I am also entitled to my opinon, right?

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Old 07-12-2008, 05:50 PM   #37
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True that! I never said that "people are not entitled to their own preferences" cc5k, where did that come from? (reading comprehension is fundamental to understanding) some people are not only open to talk about sex, but are also open to share sexual partners (called swingers) however, if don't agree with it, I am also entitled to my opinon, right?
Yes, you are entitled to your opinion too, and I know you didn't say others were not. However, IMO, you did take a derogatory tone towards the others that disagreed with you; implying and stating that they are not as mature as you for having different preferences. I think that's unnecessarily disrespectful. Maybe that was intentional though?

Also, to make a point, I'd like to draw your attention the fact that you criticized angeladc for not capitalizing the word 'i', implied I need practice with my reading comprehension, while in the very next breath misspelled the word "opinion".
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Yes, you are entitled to your opinion too, and I know you didn't say others were not. However, IMO, you did take a derogatory tone towards the others that disagreed with you; implying and stating that they are not as mature as you for having different preferences. I think that's unnecessarily disrespectful. Maybe that was intentional though?

Also, to make a point, I'd like to draw your attention the fact that you criticized angeladc for not capitalizing the word 'i', implied I need practice with my reading comprehension, while in the very next breath misspelled the word "opinion".
I see that you like to play verbal volleyball cc5000, since I have a little time to spare, I will oblige you for a moment. Please don't put words in my mouth, I never stated that "others were not as mature as me". I opined that "most adults I know, are not concerned with what sexual position others engage in" (in response to angeladc's statement that "we all adults"). As far as you thinking that my statements were unnecessarily disrespectful, that's your opinion, IMO a lot of your statements are petty and insidious, we all have opinions. Regarding my criticism of angeladc's not capitalizing the word "I", I followed up that statement with LOL, so loosen up, when did Jaypee make you the bfru police? Lastly, good job for pointing out the fact that I misspelled the word opinion, maybe you can get a job as a proof reader. You can start by proof reading your own post, your sentence : "I'd like to draw your attention the fact that" should read "I'd like to draw your attention to the fact that". LOL
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Old 07-13-2008, 08:30 AM   #39
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LMFAO! That’s what you get for always running yo big mouth. Jamal made you sit yo $5 ass down and shut the fuck up. ROFL!
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I see that you like to play verbal volleyball cc5000, since I have a little time to spare, I will oblige you for a moment. Please don't put words in my mouth, I never stated that "others were not as mature as me". I opined that "most adults I know, are not concerned with what sexual position others engage in" (in response to angeladc's statement that "we all adults").
Talk about "verbal volleyball"...

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As far as you thinking that my statements were unnecessarily disrespectful, that's your opinion, IMO a lot of your statements are petty and insidious, we all have opinions.
Yes, we all have opinions. How about taking it a step further and respecting those of others?

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Regarding my criticism of angeladc's not capitalizing the word "I", I followed up that statement with LOL, so loosen up, when did Jaypee make you the bfru police?
Laughing at someone is different than laughing with someone. I'm not the BFRU police, but like you, I'm free to post what I want. I have little tolerance for people that try to verbally bully others (angeladc can probably handle her own), but I'm still going to speak up when I think I see it. Anyone can read your comments directed towards angeladc and infer that you were being demeaning. Are you trying to deny that?

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I have 6,500 posts on here and if you're feeling bored you can dig through them and find another 1,000+ spelling/grammar errors. Knock yourself out. Or you can be like "most adults that you know" and ignore it. even when i decide not to capitilize my words...
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LMFAO! That’s what you get for always running yo big mouth. Jamal made you sit yo $5 ass down and shut the fuck up. ROFL!
LOL... I'm still posting and it will take more than that to make me stop. I've seen a dozen of you come and go on BFRU while I've been around and I haven't sat down and shut up yet. My guess is that I won't during your tenure on BFRU either.

I'm not going to lump you together with Jamal because my impression of Jamal is that he puts thought and consideration into his posts.
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