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Originally Posted by Phoenix
It's regrettable that she brought it up. But it demonstrates a key point that Black women will defend other Black women to the death even though their sistas are demonstrating destructive behaviors.
That's one thing that needs to change if we are going to have a better community. Sugar and I should be partners in changing the world.
As for you, it's a lost cause.  |
the only thing im defending is my argument, that what you say is a lie and you demonstrate hypocrisy, and irresponsibility.
1. Your assumption is a lie, b/c I like good guys. I Do Not like thugs
2. You are being hypocritical, biased when you just point out the flaws in black women, but overlook the big problems black men face.
3. You promote irresponsibility, when you say that it takes a woman to make a man respectful and have standards. That is NOT true, every man and woman will be held accountable for their actions. REGARDLESS to what others say or do. There will always be someone who will easily have sex, but do you have to take it. NO.
you say that its the woman's fault if she picks a deadbeat dad, but then don't recognize that those irresponsible men need to be address. We can't just live in society with a whole bunch of careless men.
Now my argument, is stop putting the blame on the women. I did NOT say that black women are innocent or little angels.
(I do think some of them have those issues) But i will not ignore the many faults in black men. If you address both issues then I will believe you are sincere. If you just address ONLY the women, i know its because you have some kind of issues/resentment towards black women.
(even if every black women was "perfect", there would still be problems if black men don't have their stuff together)
Now I do feel sorry for the So called "good black men" who say they can't get black women. (if they really are good black men
) But maybe they need to come up to those women instead of assuming those girls want thugs. Stop being scared. NO woman wants a guy who doesn't have courage. The thugs probably get the women because they seem to be the ones who come up to women. I have seen some guys ask EVERY other girl for their number until they get at least one.