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Originally Posted by Phoenix
Why shouldn't they chase them? If you see a man who seems responsible and educated, it would seem to me that you should chase them rather than sit around and complain all the time that "Niggas ain't worth shit" and "I don't need a man".
I have issues with our dysfunctional Black culture.
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why are you assuming that i do that. I don't complain about black men. I was making comments about YOU
(i made specific comments, some were sarcastic and some were to show you that you are wrong)
I know there are good and bad. I see great guys all the time. But im not going to chase a man. Its not happening. I believe a man finds his wife. I want to know that a guy really likes me and if someone comes up to me it shows courage. I believe due to different behaviors of men and women, knowing that women are more emotional and loyal. That its better that a man comes up to the woman.
Why should i get with a guy who does not take the initiative???