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Originally Posted by atomiclarry
your clock does not have to be ticking at a certain age. But I will say this, many black women have found themselves to be a vicitim of their own success, their own failures and they are reaping the fruits of their mother's poor choice making when she was looking for a mate. Growing up in a single family household believing that men are optional, ok. Well, I say good luck to all of you women over 25 still single, because it gets really real from here. There are plenty of younger, less mentally poisoned women looking to compete with you for the men that are available.
Dont be mad at your boy!
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I agree. I have a man, but I'm not dead set on having a child. I would be fine not having one, but if it happens within the time frame I've set, cool.
For a long time, I viewed having a husband as optional (not because I grew up in a single parent home, because I didnt) just because I knew at certain points in my life, trying to be serious with one person would do more harm than good to that person...I tried to be with one person, he cheated, then I cheated..then he kept on cheating, it was a disaster, the trust was gone on both parts after that....but fast forward to now and things are 100% better..so is the person I'm with.