[KHARMA]

If you are married, you are probably getting about 80% of your needs met. The other 20% don’t get met for whatever reason. Suddenly a person comes around and begins to give you that 20% of the attention that you needed and it FEELS GOOD! That 20% was missed so much that you are just enthralled with that 20%. You can’t get enough of the 20%. What happens though is that you begin to neglect the person who is giving you 80% and therefore risking losing 80%. In the end it comes down to a simple math equation. You lose 80% to gain 20% and you lose more than you gain. It doesn’t seem worth it doesn’t it?

I dont think its possible for someone to give 100%, 100% of the time. Try as you may, if you have kids and a job, on top of trying to be a social butterfly, it unlikely. Maybe its because I'm not married yet, so my focus is still on me...someone correct me if I'm wrong.

I didnt really connect with any of the characters..or rather, I didnt see myself in any of them. As women, at one point or another, we will have issues with our bodies, but I dont obsess over it.

Now if my husband would have told me to get my fat ass off the plane, his black ass is coming with me! Aint no "meet us there!" N*gga done lost his damn mind!


As far as the cheating/divorce thing....its all up to the individual couple...Warm, I cant remember, but I think you and I had a discussion on this before about Hillary not leaving Bill...we didnt agree..I just think options have to be weighed...if you have more to lose by staying, then by all means, leave. If someone has been married a year and cheats, I think it would be a little easier for the "cheated on" to walk away, as opposed to a couple that has been married 20 years, has kids, a mortgage and a foundation has been built.....just my 10 cent (cause I'm a dime!) tee hee