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Originally Posted by KHARMA
who is frank and why do you want to be him? lol...
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LOL... Frank is a guy who's honest and straight forward... tells it like it is. And he's really good looking, which always helps his delivery.
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anywho, I...uhh, "she" told him, he's not offended by a prenup
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He's not? I find that hard to believe. Maybe he's not admitting/showing he's offended? If someone asked you for a pre-nup, what would you think about his level of confidence in the future of the marriage? We've talked about this a couple times up here. What is the person saying when they ask for a pre-nup?
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Its not that there is no trust, I just know $hit happens...I'm not banking on "them" getting a divorce, but just seeking some options...
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I understand and believe that, but that's not enough to take the plunge for life imo. There has to be UNQUESTIONABLE trust. And other than not "banking" on there being a divorce, both have to be absolutely CERTAIN that there will NEVER be a divorce.
This is a very high standard, of course, and it's my personal opinion. By far, most of the people that get married go in without being at this level. And ~60% of marriages end in divorce, not to mention the ?? percent that stay married unhappily. Obviously there's a positive correlation between the two.
If marriage is just viewed as the natural next step in the dating cycle (like it is for a lot of people), then the possibility of divorce will be on the table (it's essentially like any other "break up" but with paperwork to go with it). If marriage is viewed as a life commitment that you will make your #1 priority in life, then divorce and pre-nups are not even on the table.